to attack each other during our meetings, accusing each other of improper motives and demanding opposing solutions. Our investment of time and energy was producing no results, and relationships were suffering further damage. I finally asked to talk with the two sisters in private. Putting the guardianship issue aside for a moment, I asked them to take a look at how they were treating one another. As we examined their attitudes and behavior in the light of a few relevant Bible passages, the Lord began